Pay Attention To Body Language In Conversation

Some expressions and actions appear in the conversation, which is often a reflection of people's true thoughts, indicating that one party is interested in or tired of the conversation. Because unconscious body language sometimes reveals more secrets than voice, you should know the role of these body languages when talking. 　　 1) Positive body language. The following body language shows that the other person has become interested in this conversation. The other side's cheeks rose slightly. This is a sign that the other party is just beginning to be interested. People are eager to hear clearly about topics of interest. Eyes narrow and narrow. This is a reflection of the other party's thinking. Not only is he listening to you carefully, but also his brain is constantly moving with you. The corners of the mouth are raised, and the mouth is often half closed and half open. When the corners of the mouth are downward, it is an expression of contempt or disdain; Tight lips indicate that he really does not want to participate in your topic; When the corners of his mouth rise, it means that his interest has been aroused by you; When the mouth is half open, it means that he will discuss a topic with you. Keep your shoulders balanced. When the other side sits and stands, the shoulders are uneven, which is a sign of fatigue; Shoulder balance indicates that he is in good spirit and is not tired of your topic. The other party blinks less and opens its eyes wide. Frequent blinking indicates impatience, while the number of negative words decreases, indicating that he has been attracted by your topic. Maybe there is no more time to blink. As for the sudden eye opening, he has understood what you mean. Lean forward slightly. This is a synonym for "listening". When a person focuses on listening to others, his body will lean forward slightly in order to listen carefully. Cooperate with the speaker frequently. At this time, the other party has actively participated. When he repeatedly replied, "Hmm", or nodded in approval, his attitude can be seen. 　　 2) Negative body language. The following body language shows that the other person has become disgusted or bored with this conversation. Cross your legs and point your toes at others. Yawn and stretch. Nails, ears, nose. Feet or fingers. Look at the watch. Put your hands behind your head. Cross your arms and embrace your chest. Spread your legs apart. Rub your eyes and scratch your hair. Blow smoke or smoke rings at others.